The short answer
Yes, in most contested Florida divorces. Judges must refer disputed custody and parenting issues to mediation under § 44.102(2)(c), Florida Statutes, and most circuits require mediation before a contested final hearing, unless a history of domestic violence would make it unsafe or unfair.
Is mediation required in Florida?
Yes, in most contested divorces. If you and your spouse disagree about parenting, Florida law says the judge must send those issues to mediation. Most circuits also require mediation before a contested final hearing. Mediation is a private meeting where a neutral person, the mediator, helps you try to settle. You do not have to agree to anything.
This is a normal step, and many couples settle there. The rule comes from § 44.102(2)(c), Florida Statutes (2026 text, checked as of October 2026). In circuits with a family mediation program, once the court finds a dispute, it "shall refer to mediation all or part of custody, visitation, or other parental responsibility issues."
Local court orders go further. For example, the Third Judicial Circuit's Administrative Order 2022-004 says family parties "must participate in mediation unless exempt by statute, rule, or court order." A contested case there cannot be set for final hearing until the mediator reports back. The Fourteenth Judicial Circuit uses the same "shall attend" rule for contested family cases.
When is mediation not required in a Florida divorce?
You can often skip mediation if you already agree on everything, or if domestic violence makes it unsafe. Here is what the answer depends on:
- Uncontested cases: If you have a signed settlement covering every issue, there is usually nothing left to mediate. Check your circuit's order, because some still list mediation steps.
- Domestic violence: Under § 44.102(2)(c), the court must not order mediation if a party asks and the judge finds a history of domestic violence that would compromise the process.
- Injunctions and convictions: Under Florida Family Law Rule of Procedure 12.740, you must tell the court about a domestic violence injunction or conviction between you. The judge may then waive mediation or set safety rules for it.
- Some case types: Rule 12.740 says Title IV-D child support cases, post-judgment contempt and enforcement, and injunction extensions are not sent to mediation without good cause or both parties' consent.
Tip: If you fear your spouse, tell the court or the mediation office before mediation is scheduled. Some circuits, like the Third Circuit, screen for domestic violence first.
If mediation is required and you skip it without permission, the judge can delay your hearing. Talk to a lawyer before you ignore a mediation order. Our guide to whether you need a lawyer for divorce in Florida explains when one helps most.
| Combined yearly income | Fee per person, per session |
|---|---|
| Under $50,000 | $60 |
| $50,000 to under $100,000 | $120 |
| $100,000 or more | Private mediator sets the fee |
How much does required mediation cost in Florida?
It depends on your combined income. Court mediation programs charge $60 or $120 per person per session under § 44.108(2), Florida Statutes, as of October 2026. Couples earning $100,000 or more together usually must hire a private mediator, as the Fourteenth Circuit's program explains.
You pay the clerk before the session in court programs. For the full list of other fees, see what additional costs to expect in a Florida divorce.
Frequently asked questions
Is mediation required for divorce in Florida?
Yes, for most contested divorces. Judges must refer disputed parenting issues to mediation under § 44.102(2)(c), Florida Statutes, and most circuits require mediation before a contested final hearing. You can be excused if a history of domestic violence would make mediation unsafe or unfair. If you settle everything first, there is usually nothing left to mediate.
What additional costs should I expect in a Florida divorce?
Mediation is one of them. Court programs charge $60 or $120 per person per session, based on combined income, under § 44.108(2), Florida Statutes, as of October 2026. Higher earners pay a private mediator. You may also pay filing fees, service fees, parenting course fees and lawyer fees, which vary by case and county.
Do I need a lawyer for divorce in Florida?
No, Florida does not require you to hire a lawyer. You can file and attend mediation on your own. A lawyer is worth considering when you have children, property, retirement accounts or a spouse with a lawyer. Some people hire a lawyer just to review a mediated agreement before they sign it.
Can I get divorced in Florida without a lawyer?
Yes. Many people represent themselves using the Florida Supreme Court's approved family law forms. You still follow the same rules, including any required mediation. If your case is contested or involves domestic violence, getting legal advice before mediation can protect your rights. Signed mediation agreements are hard to undo later.
Sources
- Section 44.102, Florida Statutes (2026): Court-ordered mediation, Florida Legislature
- Section 44.108, Florida Statutes (2026): Funding of mediation and arbitration, Florida Legislature
- In re: Amendments to Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure (Rule 12.740), Supreme Court of Florida (via FindLaw)
- Administrative Order 2022-004: Family Mediation, Third Judicial Circuit of Florida
- Family Mediation, Fourteenth Judicial Circuit of Florida
